concerning blogs and friendship

i've been blogging a lot in the past few days.
mostly because i've had things on my mind, and no one really to talk to.
so.
i hide them in ambiguous statements, and put them in my blog.
so there you go.
this is where the subtlety ends.

i found out who my real friends are.
i also found out that some people really just do not have a fucking clue.
i'm not sure if i blame them or not.
we'll get there, leefies.

real friends are people that will help you no matter what.
everyone will agree with this statement. most people don't know what it means.
people try and do "what's best" for someone. 
but then again, what you and i think is best doesn't mean shit.
there is no book on how to be a real friend. there is no protocol on what to do when your friend is in trouble.
some people try and handle this like they handle most of their problems.
...by trying to remain guiltless.
they try and pass the responsibility onto someone, something else.
treat the symptoms. ignore the disease.

i'm dramatizing for the sake of comprehension and amusement.

the point i'm trying to make is, nobody is easy to understand.
the world would be a very boring place if that were true.
but trying to understand that person, by trying to put yourself into their shoes, you understand their feeling better.
s'called empathy, bro.
once you understand how someone feels, you don't have to do anything to help them.
have someone to share your feelings with is the remedy to almost any ailment.
everyone wants to do what's right. that's just the easy way out.

or this is all bullshit. i'll let you decide.

clueless people?
well, i can't say that i haven't been clueless before.
so i guess i won't hold it against them.
but it's just so damn annoying.

so what brings on this pretentious and assuming blog post? i think some leefers probably know.
i'll let the rest use their imagination. if they have any.

my next post will be cheerful. whether i like it or not.
-Jizzy T

1 comment:

MeggyB said...

can I ask to talk to you when I get back? I don't want to talk about this post in a comment. But I do want to talk to you, especially since I saw you for all of 5 minutes on friday.